What really is love?

What is love? I often ask myself those questions from time to time. It's been a while, and I've been single and dating. Relationshps are very confusing. For some reason, we tend to think we know what we want....but it's never good enough.

Why is that? Should we strive on perfection? Is that necessarily right? Why can't we accept how some of those little things are and move on? I've learned that some of those little things can be bothersome because it just adds up until you finally "blow up." For example, not taking someone seriously. There are times to be funny, and times when we should joke around. But why, when something seriously happens does it always have to be a joke. why can't that someone feel for you and be on your level to love you and listen? I just don't understand that. Maybe I just don't understand, nor have the patience for things like that. And yes, I've tried talking and trying to get my message across, but it seems like it can only get so far.

What is it that i want? I want a great relationship with whom I can trust, depend, will love for me for who I am and want to be with me. I want to be in love and stay in love. The only probelm with me is that I have this fear that I will fall out of love becaus of the constant fighting and annoyance. I need to read more about relationships and be more understanding.


Veronica